The most common quote everyone must have quoted – The Best Way To Avoid Disappointment Is Not To Expect Anything From Anyone
The most common quote yet most difficult thing to do. Believe me, have tried it all for a pretty long time it doesn’t work out the way we quote.
Even if you are strong headed you can never stop expecting from yourself and the ones you keep to yourself. Disappointment is undeniable even after trying it so hard it has been difficult to deny.
Der is some expectations that can be kept in a closed box and hide the key but in the end, locks too get old and a little push is enough to break it through. Disappointment is the most hurtful aspect, that is the reason we always get the feeling of regret, hurt from ourselves and from all those important. Because you never feel disappointed in others who are not important.
We grieve on sudden change,
Aashita Sahani
We grieve over the cancellation of a special event or family gathering,
We grieve on playing our heart out and didn’t work,
We grieve on too many high hopes,
We grieve on that one day,
We grieve on too much effort,
And We grieve and grieve…to Disappointment and back
We have all dealt with disappointment and, believe it or not, we will deal with it for the rest of our lives. Life journey has a road with the board
“Welcome to, Disappointment – Don’t stay too long”
Exactly disappointments are like bad roads on your journey just need to pass by without any halt.
Der is no one to blame for disappointing me for too long. It’s me to blame, I should have avoided the houses and moved on with another route. I should have read “Don’t stay too long”. I should have not stayed for that long.
The best thing that worked out for me – The Best Way To Avoid Disappointment Is To Expect Disappointment from Everyone.
It seems funny but it works. Let just say Expectation is the root of all the Disappointment and Expectation flow with Surprise.
The human tendency is to get a Good Surprise always if it’s not as per need it is a disaster, believe me, it is. A Surprise is not the one expected will make it a disastrously bad surprise and you know, Bad Surprise is hideous. You never know what surprise you may get so not expecting anything from anyone is going to surprise you in every different way. whereas Expecting the only thing ‘Disappointment’ won’t surprise you in any way, Surprises won’t be hideous anymore.
“Disappointed but not Surprised”
Disappointment is inevitable, dealing with it is a personal choice.
Expecting nothing won’t reduce the pain of it, Expecting will make a difference.
Aashita Sahani
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